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John 15:12 "I Have Called You Friends"

"This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends. You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you. You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit shall remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you. These things I command you, that you love one another." (John 15:12-17)

Do you have a famous friend? A powerful friend? A rich friend? A beautiful friend? A faithful friend? My wife and I watched the movie "Notting Hill" the other night. In the movie a normal British man, a bookstore owner, is suddenly befriended by a world famous movie actress played by Julia Roberts. Of course everyone wants to be her friend, there are plenty of reasons why people want to get close to her. What is far harder for this poor Englishman to understand is why in the world she would be interested in him. We have been befriended by someone far more beautiful, giving, and powerful than any movie star. The Son of God, the Prince of peace calls us "Friend." Now we know that He has been a friend to us. He has laid down His life for us on the cross and "greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends." He is everything that a friend should be. According to the Psalms, a friend loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity. Sure enough even when we are down Jesus is right there for us. When we are taking a beating by this world, Jesus fights for us. He sticks closer than a brother, with us even when our family cannot be around. This is not the movie star’s heroics on the silver screen or the politician’s smile and handshake extended to the masses. He is not a "Friend" of everyone and therefore "friend" of no one at all. Jesus does not ride in on a white horse to save us only to ride out again before we can touch Him or tarnish His image. He truly calls us His friends. He wants to be with us! He wants us to be with Him. This is hard to believe. Why in the world would Jesus want me for a friend?
In the Old Testament God only called one person His friend. Abraham was called the "friend of God." James tells us that it was because Abraham believed in God and it was accounted to him for righteousness. (James 2:23) But James was using this story of Abraham to make a point. He wanted to show that our faith is nothing unless it is combined with obedience, doing the works that God has commanded us to do. Abraham was so obedient to God that he was willing to sacrifice his son Isaac. He was called the friend of God because he had enough faith to keep God’s commands. Jesus says the same thing to us, "You are My friends if you do whatever I command you." Now this is different than what we normally think of as friendship. We usually think of friends as equals who enjoy being in each others company and don’t command each other but instead find it easy to ask each other for help. But it is pretty obvious that Jesus is not our equal. He is God. He was there in the beginning when God created the world and He is the one who died on the cross to set us free. He is our Commander in Chief, to borrow a military phrase. And yet He calls himself our friend.
I just finished reading a book about the Lewis & Clark Expedition. In 1804, Captains Lewis and Clark led a team of men across the continent of America to the Pacific Ocean in what is now my home state of Oregon. At that time, no one knew what dangers awaited them or if they would ever make it back home alive. The relationship between these captains and their men is intriguing. At times they had to use very harsh discipline on the men, laying on 50 lashes of a whip to those who fell asleep on guard duty. But it was necessary because while that man slept the whole party could have fallen into the hands of hostile natives. At times they had to push the men to the very edge of their endurance, forcing weary men to march for days through snow and rain with heavy loads and little food. On the expedition the men were not equal, the captains led and the men followed orders. And yet the level of trust that developed between them was hard to find anywhere else. The men knew that the captains would undergo any hardship, endure any suffering that they commanded the men to do. Whatever the task, the captains were right beside them. The men knew that their lives depended on the decisions that their captains made and they trusted them with those decisions. In return the men gave their captains their all, far more than grudging obedience or reluctant service, these men put muscle and endurance to the test. They were more than just soldiers and officers, they were friends. The men gave their all for their captains, and from the time they stepped off the edge of the map, to the time they got back the captains took care of their men. Out of all the hardship and thousands of miles, only one man died.
Jesus calls us friends when He can put His trust in us, when He knows that we believe in Him and what He is doing. He doesn’t want us to obey simply because we must, but with our whole hearts. Jesus said, "No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you." We talk a lot about having a servant heart and being a servant of each other and Christ. That is the right attitude for us to have. But Jesus does not treat us as servants. Instead He treats us as friends. Jesus has shown us His own example of obedience to the Father. He has shown us what love is all about. He doesn’t just command us because it is right, instead He has become our model of what the Father is doing in this world. His command to love one another is based not on some great philosophical principle, but on His example. "As I have loved you." We know what the master is doing, we have seen it in Jesus. We know that God is love and are eager to obey and become part of the force for love in this world. This is why Jesus wants us for His friends. He wants to turn this world upside-down through us. In fact He has chosen us for a mission. We have been appointed, hand-picked, to join Him in enemy territory. Our mission is to infiltrate this world that is ruled by hate and fear, and plant resistance groups of love and peace and joy. Each place that we plant these groups those unmistakable results of God’s Spirit will remain and grow until the enemy must flee. This mission is not without its dangers, so that is why Jesus wants friends, those who know His heart, trust Him implicitly, and are willing to obey His commands.

"If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also. But all these things they will do to you for My name’s sake, because they do not know Him who sent Me. If I have not come and spoken to them, they would have no sin, but now they have no excuse for their sin. He who hates Me hates My Father also. If I had not done among them the works which no one else did, they would have no sin; but now they have seen and also hated both Me and My Father. But this happened that the word might be fulfilled which is written in their law, ‘They hated Me without a cause.’ But when the Helper comes, whom I shall send to you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, He will testify of Me. And you also will bear witness because you have been with Me from the beginning." (John 15:18-27)

As Christians we are at war. Even though we have peace with God because our sins are forgiven, the peace that passes understanding that protects us from fear, and peace in our own hearts that allows us to keep our cool despite the circumstances we find ourselves in, we still are not at peace with this world. The world hated Jesus and it continues to hate His followers. Why? Because they see Him in us. Those distinctive results of His presence in us, love, peace and joy, those fruits that cannot come from anywhere else betray His presence in our midst. When the world looks at us and sees those fruits they know that Jesus is with us. I am always surprised at the reactions that I get from people when I tell them about Jesus Christ. I find that most non-westerners will listen politely to the gospel and either accept it with joy or refuse it without much animosity. But those from western countries such as my own country, America, often respond very rudely and even with violence. The reason for this is that most of them have already heard the gospel many times in their life and have already rejected it. Those from other cultures are usually hearing it, and choosing to receive or reject Jesus for the very first time. Recent statistics state that the average American hears the gospel at least seven times a year. Over a lifetime Americans have hundreds of opportunities to make their choice. In Japan, the vast majority have never heard the gospel presented even once. They might have heard about Jesus Christ or even attended a Christian school or university, but have never heard that Jesus died for their sins on the cross, and if they believe that He truly is the Son of God, and that He rose again on the third day that their sins will be forgiven and they can have eternal life. Most Japanese have never been given the opportunity to make that choice.
Jesus said, "If I had not come and spoken to them, they would have no sin, but now they have no excuse for their sin." He is talking about their perception of their own life. Most people do not consider themselves to be sinners. They think that they are trying their best to get along in a difficult life and that they are basically good. At the same time they have lots of needs and hurts that they don’t understand why they have. It is not until people compare themselves with God’s ideal that they realize that their problems are their own fault, that they have sinned and fallen short of what they were supposed to be. The original word for "sin" in the Bible means to "miss the mark". Like shooting an arrow at a target and not reaching far enough, we don’t measure up to what we should be. We are nowhere near perfect. It is not until you see Jesus who was perfect that you realize how wretched you really are. For those who reject Christ, each time they hear the gospel it simply reminds them of their sin. No wonder they hate to hear it! For those of us who receive Jesus, the gospel reminds us that we are forgiven. No wonder we love to hear it!
For those who hear the gospel so often and cannot deny the sin in their own lives that is exposed the only way to escape is to deny the existence of God altogether. But Jesus won’t allow that either. "If I had not done among them the works which no one else did, they would have no sin; but now they have seen and also hated both Me and My Father. By His miracles, Jesus proved that He truly was God. It could not be denied that He had healed the sick and brought Lazarus back from the dead. No one else could do those things. The same thing is true today. When the world sees the greater works that Jesus does through us, they cannot escape that there really is a God whom they are rebelling against. When people see Christians loving as Jesus loved, giving self sacrificially, coming alongside the lost and hurting to help, they are seeing a powerful witness to God. When people see the other fruits, joy and peace in our lives they are seeing a powerful witness to the Father. The only way that they can ignore it is to build up a wall of hate to keep it away.

Jesus Christ is our great Friend, who loved us so much that He died for us so that we could have peace with God. He wants you to be His friend as well. He has chosen you for a vital mission, to share the good news of salvation in Jesus Christ with this world. You are surrounded by millions of people who don’t understand why they are hurting and have little hope that their lives will ever be any better. They find it hard to trust anyone because they have been lied to and taken advantage of. They find it hard to love because they have never seen what real love is. You have two secret weapons in this battle. The first is the word of God, the good news that Jesus spoke. You must make sure that every person you know hears and understands the message that they can be saved. It is their choice and you cannot force them to accept what Jesus has done for them, but it is your responsibility to let them know. Your friend, Jesus has entrusted this to you, don’t let Him down. Your second weapon is the fruit in your life that comes from abiding in Jesus Christ. The more that people around you see those distinctive fruit the more convinced they will be that Jesus is real. Your friend, Jesus has commanded that you love one another, abiding in His love so that you bear much fruit. If you do this you will be His witnesses in this world.


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